Don't Ask Why

Certain things in life are meant to be.

In life, men are men when they are attracted to beautiful beings we call 'female'. Tak surprise lah kalau lelaki mencari yang lawa-lawa, comel, cute, cantik semua. Sedap mata memandang katanya. For me, beauty is so subjective that ia tak bergantung pada rupa sahaja. It comes from within. And also doa from many. Example, bila kita baik dengan orang, dalam hati that person will say, she is a nice girl. Cantik peribadi. And then wallah, automatically that person will become cantik to us. Because budi pekerti dan juga that feeling we get from a person who is nice.
                 Another factor is confidence. Some fat girls are amazingly confident that I don't see them as a fat person at all. The personality and that "I-am-beautiful-no-matter-what-they-say" confidence is vital on people's perception. But being overly confident without mencermin diri sebelum keluar rumah akan surely send the wrong messages to many. The borderline of confidence is as thin as ice. Jangan sampai nampak syco atau desperado atau riak. Thus deterioration of beauty begins.
                  The final piece is your style. You know what to wear and who you are as a person. Kau tahu kaler kuning tak sesuai dengan skin tone kau, bila pakai ketat body kau lipat or dah tahu buah dada tajam, tutup lah ia. There is a HUGE difference between girls who dress up for guys and girls who dress up for themselves. That is a fact. Thank you.
                   Setelah merepek panjang, YES genetik baka baik juga memainkan peranan dalam natural beauty. Itu rezeki Allah yang Maha Esa untuk insan-insan terpilih. Namun tak perlulah kita berduka lara, sebab cantik itu kurniaan Dia. Semuanya boleh ditarik balik. Tapi bagi mereka yang rasa diri tak cantik sangat padahal cantik je orang tengok, sila ke cermin dan bersyukurlah dengan apa yang ada.


*Kalau semua orang asyik cakap kita hotstuff, lawa, cantik, ayu, itu doa mereka. Aminkan sahaja.