Clingy

Background song : Pussycat Dolls - I don't need a man.

              Bukan i want to deem myself the ultimate human being or what but statement is : i am not a desperate clingy girl. I read someones blog and all she wrote about was her bf. How sweet he was. How she could make him follow what she says. How he is the love of her life. How his bf buat macam-macam untuk dia. My interpretation was....she is clingy and emo and menyusahkan bf dia. She just went through a nasty breakup with her so called 'love of her life' and tak sampai seminggu dah update blog pasal love baru yang ni. WTF. Everyone who reads her blog can see what a childish clingy girl she is. Kesian tengok.
                Fyi, kat dunia ni ada 2 jenis perempuan. Perempuan yang sumpah clingy. Bf tak reply msg dia bermakna bf dah abaikan dia. rasa dunia nak runtuhlah. apelah. Gaduh sikit je. Dah tukar gambar emo kat fb then buat status sardis. Bf tak boleh ada kawan perempuan lain sebab maknanya curang(kau boleh pulak ada bestfren laki kan). Kau gedik takpe, dia friendly tak boleh. And you know a guy who is in love with u will do anything for you but jangan sampai satu tahap dia dah tak nak buat dah. He is in for the long run but if kau still perangai macam budak kecik tak nak lepaskan botol susu, bye bye lah. Sah breakup lepas 'setahun' together.
                And ada perempuan yang independent enough that we can be happy with or without men. We don't need to change bfs every menstrual cycle and we don't say we love someone that easily because to us, love is not cheap. Guys have to work for us and we will not show much but we do care. Tapi our style bukan jenis huhuhuuhuhuhuhu 24 jam sehari. I like to be among strong independent woman. Walaupun dah ada bf, we still have ourself. And kita jenis setia, nak cinta 10 orang lelaki dalam hidup adalah melawan prinsip.
             Kita dah dewasa. Bukan sekolah lagi. Bercinta biar kekal. Bukan syok sendiri cinta buta langit bumi tak nampak lepas tu breakup. Ergh.


*A very well known player said to me, "U jenis independent girl, u don't need a man to make u feel good. I can see that." Aha. Hell yeah.